With intention, act. This is a performance. You are a thespian. To convey meaning, you must demonstrate with your words and actions the lesson and the learning at the same time. See what you find. Show what you know. Some of it will be universal and some of it will be personal. Knowing that leads to filtering. You are allowed to give it to them with or without your consideration. Do you lead them to see it for themselves, or do you tell them “how it is?” Your disregard for authority perhaps helps you to see the better answer. Remember you have the courage to change. Let go of the pain and keep the lesson.